Although the holidays
are supposed to be a time full of joy, good cheer and optimistic hopes for a
new year, many people experience seasonal “blues.” What’s important to know is
that there are steps you can take to help beat the blues this holiday season.
The “holiday blues”
can be caused by many factors: increased stress and fatigue, unrealistic
expectations, over commercialization and the inability to be with one’s family.
The increased demands of shopping, parties, family reunions and house guests
also contribute to these feelings of tension. Even people who do not become
depressed can develop other stress reactions during the holidays, such as
headaches, excessive drinking, overeating and difficulty sleeping.
Although many people
become depressed during the holiday season, even more respond to the excessive
stress and anxiety once the holidays have passed. This post-holiday letdown can
be the result of emotional disappointments experienced during the preceding
months, as well as the physical reactions caused by excess fatigue and stress.
There are several
ways to identify potential sources of holiday depression that can help you head
off the blues:
• Keep expectations for the holiday season manageable
by not trying to make the holiday “the best ever.”
• Set realistic goals for yourself.
• Pace yourself.
• Organize your time. Make a list and prioritize the
most important activities.
• Be realistic about what you can and cannot do.
• Remember that the holiday season does not
automatically banish reasons for feeling sad or lonely. There is room for these
feelings to be present, even if you choose not to express them.
• Let go of the past. Don’t be disappointed if your
holidays are not like they used to be. Life brings changes. Each holiday season
is different and can be enjoyed in its own way. Don’t set yourself up for
sadness by thinking everything has to be just like the “good old days.” Look
toward the future.
• Do something for someone else. It is an old remedy,
but it can help. Try volunteering some time to help others.
• Enjoy holiday activities that are free, such as
driving around to look at holiday decorations. Go window shopping without
buying anything.
• Don’t drink too much. Excessive drinking will only
make you more depressed.
• Don’t be afraid to try something new. Celebrate the
holidays in a way you have not done before.
• Spend time with people who are supportive and who
care about you.
• Reach out to make new friends if you are alone during
special times.
• Contact someone with whom you have lost touch.
• Find time for yourself. Don’t spend all of your time
providing activities for your family and friends.
Crystals Therapy for Stress
Crystals
have both piezoelectric and pyroelectric properties. This means that the
polarities of the crystal will change when subjected to pressure or heat (even
body heat from the hands). This will radiate energy from the crystal due to
this reversal of polarities.
It
provides the transfer, storage and transformation of energy.
Offering
a balanced energy field, energy modification, amplifies both energy and
thought, clarity in thinking, and harmony and alignment with the chakra energy
areas.
Any
type of stress or trauma or invasion is considered an impact on our energy
system that can have an effect on our overall “energy net” or aura. This can
cause a distortion in our energy flow and function.
Psychological
trauma is a type of damage to the psyche that occurs as a result of a traumatic
event. A traumatic event involves a singular experience or enduring event or
events that completely overwhelm the
Individual’s
ability to cope or integrate the ideas and emotions involved with that
experience. Physical trauma refers to a physical injury from a cut or bruise,
accident or an event such as rape or war. These types of impact can have either
subtle, subconscious effects or long lasting distortion to the psyche.
Crystals
can soothe the mental/emotional impact that is associated with both psychological
and physical trauma. It is important to remember that everything is energy.
Crystal grids are a great way to work with the energy surrounding us. They are
reiki-charged stones that are laid out in particular patterns in order to
“rearrange” our pattern of energy.
Gemstone
essences, or Crystal Elixirs, are energy charged waters or oils that take the
imprint or signature of a particular stone or stones and can be used as essence, perfume or anointing oils.
Consider using Alabaster, Dioptase, Gold, Howlite,
Kunzite, Labradorite, Lepidolite, Water Opal, Picasso Stone, Staurolite,
Sunstone, Plume Thunderegg, Turquoise.
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